Finding Our Village: Our Journey with Alexander Disease
My name is Deb, and together with my husband, Jim, we are the proud parents of Daniel. From the very beginning, I sensed something was not right during my pregnancy. Despite being reassured repeatedly that everything was fine, I trusted my instincts and sought out a neonatologist. Each month, Daniel’s head measurements grew two weeks ahead while his body fell two weeks behind. By 34 weeks, he had stopped growing altogether. During my 37-week checkup, I was sent directly to the hospital for an emergency C-section.
Daniel entered the world underweight and unable to regulate his body temperature. Before we could take him home, he had to pass the car seat test—but he failed. That moment marked the beginning of a long and difficult journey to find out what was wrong.
As an infant, Daniel struggled with Failure to Thrive. He vomited frequently, suffered from severe constipation, and missed every developmental milestone. Despite my repeated concerns, it took persistence before doctors began testing him for underlying conditions. At age two, Daniel still could not walk or talk. I took him to specialists across disciplines—ENT, orthopedics, neurology—searching for answers. Finally, after years of uncertainty and multiple MRIs, we received a diagnosis: Alexander Disease.
Hearing those words was both devastating and validating. My concerns had been dismissed for so long, but now we finally knew the truth. Life shifted instantly. At the time, I was working as an engineer, juggling 50–60-hour workweeks, caring for my teenage son, and managing Daniel’s growing schedule of therapies and medical appointments. Eventually, the demand became too great, and I was laid off.
With no treatment or cure available for Alexander Disease, my husband and I resolved to focus our energy on raising awareness and supporting research. We began by partnering with the United Leukodystrophy Foundation (ULF), hosting Walk for ULF fundraisers before launching our own nonprofit, Daniel’s Fight.
From our very first phone call, ULF was there. They became an invaluable source of guidance and connection. We attended their conferences in Chicago, where, for the first time, we met experts and families who truly understood Alexander Disease. In the isolating world of rare disease, ULF offered us a village: a network of people who “get it” and stand beside you no matter what.
Daniel passed away at the age of 14. Though he is no longer with us, his spirit continues to guide me. Through Daniel’s Fight, I will carry on his legacy, raising awareness, funding research, and fighting so that no other family has to endure the heartbreak of losing a child to Alexander Disease.
By giving, you help honor Daniel’s life and strengthen the research and resources that offer hope to families navigating this difficult path.
